Welcome to my Tangled Web!
I’m pleased to share with you that I’m a blogger for the Huffington Post! Here’s the link to where you can find my posts.
I began blogging here in August 2010. It was a scary but exciting proposition then. It’s still exciting, and the only frightening thing is, perhaps, the fear of running out of things to say. So far, so good.
And here’s the icing on the cake: In the two years I’ve been blogging, I’ve been Freshly Pressed FOUR times! Here are the links to my FP’d posts: On Notice, The Fake Family Tree, Broken Hearts & The Road Not Taken, and The Race is On. Fourth time is the charm, right? Honestly, how much joy can a girl take?
The honors continued when, I received The Versatile Blogger Award. (Thanks, Writingfeemail’s Blog!) Then, I was the proud recipient of the Kreativ Blogger Award! You can read all about it and find out who I in turn bestowed the award upon, in my post, London Actress Picks Me!
Since then, I’ve been honored with four more awards: the No Hoops, two more Versatile Blogger Awards, and the Irresistibly Sweet Blog Awards.
I’m a baby boomer so I’m sure you can guess at my age—somewhere between 50 and one foot in the grave. And no, I am not over the hill yet, if that’s what you’re thinking. I’m divorced, the mother of two very grown children (the younger, still in college). A former New Yorker with an East Coast attitude living in THE most laid-back city ever, San Diego–and loving it!
I love getting my Broadway fill by seeing shows at the La Jolla Playhouse and Old Globe theater and, if I hear of a play bound for Broadway, believe me, I’m there. I also enjoy dancing, especially tap dancing. and Zumba. If you ever see someone tap dancing in a long line at the bank or grocery story, that’s probably me. And if you’re still curious about me, please read my post, 10 Things You Don’t Know About Me.
Yes, I love my life, on my own, single, with a very handsome, happy fella, who is 100% mine: Henry, my Cavalier King Charles Spaniel.
A great writer once said, “Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive!”
I’ve been living by these words all my life. For me, writing is the art of deception–exaggerating truths, reconstructing memories and filling in the blanks. Embellishing to make a point! As a kid growing up in Queens, I loved telling tall tales, stretching the truth. I think I was good at it because people believed me. It’s probably why I always wanted to be a writer. It’s fun. So, welcome to my life, my observations, and my stories. Welcome to my Tangled Web!
Feel free to contact me at monicastangledweb@gmail.com.




I love your picture.
I love it! Off to a great start. Already interesting, witty,great photo choice. This is going to be a blast!!!!!!!
BTW I will never again believe a word you say.
good to hear it
Congratulations Monica on getting this started. I look forward to reading more.
I never did believe a word you say but now I may take you more seriously. All grown up with your own blog! You go, Girl!
Great beginning!
I never knew you were such a good writer.
I’m glad to have found your tangled web! Great blog!
Sunshine
For some reason your comment ended up in my spam and I just discovered it. Thank you for your sweet words. I so appreciate you visiting my blog.
Hi, nice to meet you !
I have a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, too! My little guy is 8 years old now and his name is Chester. Aren’t Cavs the best?!
Indeed, Cavaliers are wonderful, happy little guys. Sweet as can be. Chester’s a great name for a Cav. Thank you so much for visiting my site!
Monica, I so love your story! I too am a baby boomer and new to blogging as of today. I’m honored that it is your story I found, read, and enjoyed first. Please visit my site, as I am sure we will have similar experiences to share.
Welcome to the wonderful world of blogging. I have found my bliss and I’m sure you will too. I look forward to learning about your experiences.
What a fine storyteller you are! I thoroughly enjoyed the read.
Congrats on the Freshly Pressed!
Sarah
moonmooring.wordpress.com
Thank you! And thank you for visiting my blog! It’s so exciting to be Freshly Pressed again.
I love your picture and I love your blogs!!
Thank you! And thank you, too, for stopping by!
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I’ve had the quote dancing around in my head for years. I really like it. “Oh what a tangled web … ”
Great blog you’ve made here. I’m just snooping around wordpress today and I found yours. Have a great weekend.
As you can see, I love that quote. I remember my 8th grade English teacher reciting it for us. That’s when I first heard it. Powerful words. Food for thought. I’ve been under their spell ever since. Oh what a tangled web, indeed! Thank you for snooping around. Delighted you discovered my blog!
great picture!!! and do your kids read your blog??? my brother is up to date on mine lol.
Yep, my kids know. My daughter subscribes, but my son never reads it. I could write that he’s a green martian who believes in the tooth fairy, and he’d never know. If I started writing about basketball and football, maybe he’d change his mind.
Hi Monica:
I’m celebrating my one year “blogiversary” today…in honour of it, I’m adding some new folks to my blogroll. Is it okay to add you to “She Said”? Thanks!
Wendy
Oh Wendy, what an honor! I’m so sorry I was away most of today and only saw this now. Hope it’s not too late. Thank you, thank you, for such a wonderful opportunity!
Hi Monica, thought I’d stop by to say thanks for stopping by my blog. Love this entry. How exciting!! Can’t wait to find out what type of case you land.
Thanks, Isabelle. It’s always nice to find a good blog and I’m glad I came across yours, too! I appreciate you stopping by!
I just signed up for your blog, Monica. I love your humorous observations about life and parenting in your writing. I’m looking forward to reading your future posts ~
Hi Nancy, Welcome to my blog! I so appreciate your positive comments and, of course, for becoming a subscriber.
Hi Monica, I’m certainly subscribing to you! Judging from some of your posts, we have a lot in common. I’m about to become a partial empty nester. Both of my daughters are in college, but live at home because we only live 10 minutes away from their university (quite a money saver). My oldest is moving out in July to attend medical school, so this will be the first litte bird to leave my nest.
. My youngest has two more years of school, but is already making wedding plans with her long-time boyfriend, so she will be moving on in a year or two, I’m sure. I’m certain your posts will give me some delightful insight on dealing with their being gone. I look forward to reading more from you!
Oh, no, not the empty nest! You must tell your daughters they cannot leave and must stay forever so they can care for you in your old age (like in the book, “Like Water for Chocolate.”) LOL
But trust me, fear of the empty nest is overated. There’s a conspiracy afoot that we should dread the empty nest, but turns out, it’s like a new beginning. A new lease on life. Think of it as being foot loose and fancy free! That said, my empty nest lasted a whole year and a half. At which time, my eldest moved back and he’s going to be staying with me for a few months. At which time, I’ll again be writing all about how happy I am with my empty nest, and my Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Henry.
Thank you, thank you for subscribing! Glad you’re enjoying my blog.
I’ve only started reading you recently but you’ve already made me laugh so hard I’ve subscribed to your blog and added you to the blogroll on my blog (so all 8 of my followers can read you).
And while it may not be PC to say this I’m thrilled at your age and the fact that children (having them, raising them, photographing them) are not the focus of your blog. Finding like minded blogs is not easy!
Thank you, Catherine for your kind words. What an honor, being added to your blogroll.
And THANK YOU for not being PC! When I started this blog, almost a year ago, I decided from the get go, this would not be that kind of blog. I look forward to exploring yours, too.
I’m really so glad you enjoy my blog!
Boomer here as well. Congrats. on being Pressed twice! I haven’t had the honour, but for another blog of mine (I created and manage 3 blogs plus am guest writer for 4th one.) it got Ecopressed twice.
Admittedly I haven’t identified myself on any blog in terms of age range yet. I reveal my age in Internet forums that I participate. People at work surf around…
Best wishes!
Thank you for your well wishes, but as of today, I’ve been freshly pressed 3 times!! I’m thrilled to pieces!
Congratulations, Monica! I’m pleased to report that you’ve just received The Irresistibly Sweet Blogger Award! You’re receiving this award because I really enjoy your wonderful writing. To accept your award, go to http://howcanicomplain.wordpress.com/. I know all of us on here have very busy lives, so please feel no obligation to participate. If you do have time, pass the award on to seven bloggers that you deem worthy. Announce the winners in a post and include seven random facts about yourself.
Sprinkles
This is so awesome! Thank you, thank you! Does this mean now I can actually save Sprinkles? Because you know, I won’t rest until I do!
I have really enjoyied reading your well written article. It looks like you spend a lot of effort and time on your blog. I have bookmarked it and I am looking forward to reading new articles. Keep up the good work!
Tangled Monica,
see you in cyber.
I’m not sure whether I subscribe, but I shall. Tangled people interest me.
I thought of this when you mentioned running out of things to say
——My dad asked me the other day, “Kim, how do you think of topics for your blog all the time.” I said “LIfe is full of topics!!!”
I have a feeling you have lots to say!!!
Thanks so much, Kim! I do go into tailspins of panic sometimes, thinking that any minute, I’m going to run out of things to say. So far, sometimes even at the 11th hour, some idea hits me. But still I wait expectantly for the other shoe to drop. Until then, I remain cautiously optimistic that I’ll always have something to write about.
Huffington Post Rocks!
& So Do YOU! XX
You’re a peach, Kim. Thank you for reading, for commenting and for being you!
So glad Mikalee sent me over to your site. Very inspiring! As a “fast approaching” empty nester, and a nearing 50, writer, who hasn’t gotten to really expand into my own spaces yet, it’s very exciting to read posts from a woman who has. Congratulations on all your writing successes. I look forward to following the ride.
Thank you so much for stopping by! Isn’t Mikalee wonderful? And so supportive, too! I’m well into my 50′s and can tell you, this is a great age. I can now say I’m truly empowered and have found inner strength. Best of all, I went back to my roots, of sorts, and rediscovered my love of writing. It’s wonderful when you find your passion and it took me years, but I think I finally did find it. I look forward to getting to know you through your blog.
Monica, there’s a surprise for you on my blog today. Don’t you just love surprises?! This is another award (hope you haven’t received it already!)
I just adore surprises! Thank you so much for mine!
You have been tagged – http://dogdaz.com/2012/03/01/3-1-12-tag-youre-it/#comment-987 Have fun!
Thank you so much! I’m honored!
HI! I found you by way of “the good greatsby”..So glad that I did! I look forward to following you…so awesome that you write for the Huffington Post…awesome!
The Good Greatsy is one of my favorite blogs! Thank you for stopping by and checking out mine. I look forward to visiting yours as well.
Hi Monica,
Just wanted to let you know I’ve nominated you for the Sunshine Award. Congratulations! Swing by my blog to check it out. Woot! Woot!
Oh my goodness! What a treat! I just love sunshine, so a Sunshine Award is perfect! Thank you for the honor!
Carl, tell Monica to: go to Archives and select June 2011 – scroll to bottom of list and click “older entries” – second post is Fatherisms.
Congrats to you, fourth time freshly pressed blogger! I found your blog via freshly pressed. Appreciate your thought provoking posts. Your blog is also the first one I found using a similar theme that I used for my food blog. It is like finding a good neighbor! I will definitely vote! Thanks for sharing your stories, your sentiments and your viewpoints.
Howdy Neighbor! Welcome to my blog! I suppose you’ll want to be borrowing a cup of sugar for your food blog, eh. No problem, for you’ve come to the right place. Happy to help a neighbor. After all, we have similar tastes! Thanks for stopping by!